Check out our shiny new 4-hour on-line video course ...
"Shiny Happy Couples: How to Detoxify Your Relationship"

Receive a coupon for OVER 75% OFF regular price when you subscribe!

The Resentment Dumpers

Dump your Resentment, not your Relationship!

What is “The Melfox Method”?

The Melfox Method is unique in that it does not branch off and explore the inherent differences between genders, races, nationalities, sexual orientations, ages, creeds, or even the types of relationships that two people can share. The principles contained within, apply equally to all situations involving conflict with another person, whether it’s your spouse, dating partner, friend, family member, life partner, coworker, or even nemesis.



Information and Egoity combined through Interaction “tips the scale” and outweighs the issue within the Environment. In essence, the heavier the Interaction, the more effectively it cleanses your relationship Environment.

The Melfox Method can be boiled down to one conceptual statement:

Each line represents an individual concept.

  1. In Environment, we will set up the playing field and the players. The overall concept and objective will be established. The Melfox Mindset will be explained and serve as the foundation for the rest of the book.
  2. Information delves into the process of establishing common ground and the reality of the other individual, by challenging and clarifying what each one says. This, in and of itself, serves as the cornerstone for effective conflict resolution.
  3. In Egoity, we will discuss our natural autonomic defenses to vulnerability – potential roadblocks in healthy, effective communication. By understanding the cause and purpose of this protective mechanism, proper respect will be granted, and proper conflict resolution can commence.
  4. In Interaction, we will discuss combining Information and Egoity in a structured, purposeful conversation. Subjects such as disappointment, interruptions, and forgiveness will be addressed. Techniques and props will be suggested to facilitate proper and efficient exchange.
  5. Outcome is where we list the “rewards.” If the other chapters were preparations for, and the process of childbirth; this would be the child. It explains the possible results of Interaction, and lists beneficial “side effects.”
Share Button