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The Resentment Dumpers

Dump your Resentment, not your Relationship!

Conflict

How To Effectively Get Rid Of Resentment

Keep Asking “Why” to Resolve Conflict Let’s say that you consciously realize that you have resentment because your partner snores. You share that revelation with your partner that night when the two of you had some alone time. Your partner may shrug their shoulders, say that’s just the way it is, and that’s there is nothing […]

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Why Do We Suppress Our True Feelings?

Ever wonder why we sometimes feel the need to hide our emotions?  It may be “out of respect” that we bite our lip and keep inside how we really feel.  It may be out of fear of upsetting our partner by exposing our true nature.  Or, it may be that we simply want to be […]

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The Ability to Resolve Conflict

You Ain’t Buyin’ a Chevy at Match.com “My next car’s gonna have air-conditioning!” That’s what I was thinking years ago when I was tootin’ along in my ’92 Mazda 323.  We always keep a sub-conscious list of what we’re lacking in our current vehicle when we start daydreaming about the next one.  Unfortunately, all too […]

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The Language of Relationships

It’s Like Legal Jargon and Legalese Have you ever wondered why legalese is so obscure? All those embedded clauses, passive verbs, and lengthy sentences serve some purpose, right? Well one reason is clarity… “Just so there is no misunderstanding.” Its complexity is necessary to minimize contract disputes caused by things like: Lack of sufficient, pertinent […]

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